Who May Benefit From Postpartum Therapy in Bellingham, WA

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Postpartum therapy can be a wonderful tool for new parents who find themselves dealing with many things while navigating through the ropes of parenting. Though the birth of a baby is typically considered to be an occasion for celebration, it can also be quite stressful and emotionally taxing. This time of transition can bring about a whole host of new or recurring mental health symptoms that are perhaps alleviated by postpartum therapy for many.

Postpartum Mood and Anxiety Disorders

Postpartum mood and anxiety disorders (PMAD’s) are a reality for many new parents. Women with postpartum depression will also experience the same symptoms seen in major depression, including persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness as well as loss of interest in enjoyable activities, fatigue and difficulty concentrating. Postpartum anxiety may alarm you, as it could mean intense worrying or panic attacks or intrusive thoughts. Such conditions might arise from hormonal fluctuations, lack of sleep and the stress of new duties. Therapy does this by offering a nonjudgmental environment to air your thoughts, challenge negative thought distortions and work on learning new effective coping skills.

Adjustment Issues

Becoming a parent is a transformation of lifestyle, identity and day-to-day existence. New parents often have a hard time acclimating to these changes, and many end up feeling stressed and unable to cope. Therapy can aid people in coping with these changes by adjusting to a new normal, redefining one’s role and that of the family, and developing resilience. Treatments may consist of cognitive-behavioral interventions that focus on unhelpful thinking or problem solving skills that can be used to cope with daily stressors.

Trauma or Birth-Related Issues

There are people that have had traumatic birth experiences, like a particularly hard labor, complications or an emergency c-section. This trauma may also result in long-term anxiety, fear and loss. Postpartum counseling represents a safe place to process them, work through any concurrent emotions and resolve remaining trauma. Therapies such as trauma-focused therapy, EMDR or somatic therapy may be particularly helpful for making meaning of it all and weaving the experience back into your life story.

Attachment and Bonding Difficulties

Bonding with a new baby is not always easy. Babies may seem like they’re no theirs feelings of bonding with baby and becoming attached (or staying attached to their child) can be elusive. This might be uncomfortable and can affect both the baby’s and the parent’s health. Postpartum therapy can work through these feelings by identifying unattended concerns, encouraging good interactions with your child and coming up with ways to solidify the special relationship you share. The relationship is supported by attachment-based and emotion-focused interventions designed to facilitate the building of a healthy, secure relationship.

Support and Education

Therapy is not just there for emotional support, it’s also practical. New parents may benefit from being educated about the broad spectrum of postpartum conditions and guidance on how to manage parental obligations. This includes self-care techniques, tips for stress relief and learning to communicate effectively with our children. Therapy offers a venue for non-judgmental expression of fears, validation of experience and insight about becoming a parent.

Impact on Relationships

The relationship with partners, family or friends can be stretched to breaking point because of the pressures brought by children. Postpartum counseling can work on relational issues through better communication, conflict resolution, and enhance support. Therapy can also assist partners as they navigate their own shifts in the relationship and collaborate to find ways to support each other through the transition.

In brief, postpartum therapy helps manage the difficult emotional and psychological demands that assailed new parents. It provides tools to help you manage postnatal depression and anxiety, to adjust to your changing roles and difficult birth experiences, boost attachment, and develop rewarding relationships. When postpartum therapy offers a systemized way to handle these challenges, women can more readily develop resilience, nurture their wellness, and grow into their new roles healthily and efficiently.

Final Musings

If you do feel like it is something that would benefit you DO NOT hesitate to ask for a referral from your supports (Midwife/OB, birth center/ hospital, lactation consultant pelvic floor therapy) but if any of them are not helpful get in touch with your Doula or another trusted community provider. For additional suggestions or info, visit our other blogs. Or get in touch with Paper Birch Therapy if you need extra support. We’re here for you!